Self-love means accepting yourself the way you are right now! if you are on some personal development, you might have the issue. It is OK to better yourself and be the best you can be! In a sense it increases the self-love. On the specific issue of money, it can beneficial to let go of ideas you have adopted from others about money. May be, you want to believe that money is good but you were told that money is the root of all evil and you also believe that. Now, you have a self-acceptance issue as you are rejecting the part of yourself who think money is good, jugding the part through the filter of the belief “Money is the root of all evil”.

What do you think about money, wealth and financial abundance ?

Write your answers down, you will have a good list of beliefs to work with if they are limiting you. I work with a very good EFT book that has many scripts to work on limiting beliefs related to money. It is the book - Attracting Abundance with EFT.

There is also an excellent series of articles about Self-acceptance by Steve Wells on the emofree website.

I’m currently playing with the concept of self-acceptance, just using an affirmation to increase my self-acceptance a little bit each day the same way Mark Allen and Klaus Joehle did, it is something I reinforce the feeling every morning just after I wake up.
Klaus worked directly with a sum of money $3.6 Million
Mark Allen affirmed a goal he wanted to achieve and closed the affirmation with the following statement “…in an easy and relaxed manner, in a healthy way, in its own perfect time, for the highest good of all”. Such closing statement is very good I think, it helps to increase the acceptance and remove resistance.

What is better “I attract $ 3.6 Million dollars”
or “I attract $ 3.6 Million dollars in an easy and relaxed manner, in a healthy way, in its own perfect time, for the highest good of all”

Have fun !

I can go right into it and the template is as follow.

• Clearly decide what you want and also what you do not want (resistance points to eliminate)
• Removing resistance and limiting beliefs with EFT and or NLP (of course, they are other techniques but those are the ones I use)
• Installing new beliefs and resources (behaviors) , it can be done with hypnosis, ultramind , affirmations etc… many choices here.
• Doing the actual manifesting (again many techniques available) Check out the book - Creating Money by Sanaya Roman this is a good start. The Abrahams-Hick material is also good.

I do not want to go too much into the details of it. For instance the combination, I use because it might not work for everyone.  Some people will do well with the Mercedes-Benz mentality routine others will not as they have too big resistances.

A good EFT book that I already talked about to remove resistance about money is Carol Look - Attracting Abundance with EFT very good book packed of very good EFT scripts.

Below is a video of Carol Look explaining the importance of clarity when you create something.

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I do not have an interest in the “2012″ mumbo jumbo, but, I’m sure that the next 10 years will be fascinating to watch. While world politics seem to be the same garbage than it was 30 years ago, area such as computer technology, electronic, engineering, energy medicine , energy psychology will keep moving forward.

I spent most of my 2009 learning about energy medicine (notably the radiant circuits) and energy psychology, in 2008, I thought that 2009 will be focused on building more wealth but that had not been the case. It is my wish to focus on building more wealth in 2010, however, I will be really sure about that in the coming days.
If wealth becomes my focus that will mean that my posts on this blog will go in that direction as well. We will see. I consider 2009 a good year and I will work to make 2010 also a good year.

Happy new year !

Officers will have to pay by themselves if they want to enroll in a hypnosis class, the six-day course costs £1,370. According to a story from the Telegraph :

The course will teach students ‘cutting edge techniques’, including an introduction into Electroencephalography (EEG) and will be paid for out of police coffers, according to respected industry magazine Police Review.

EEG is the recording of electrical activity in the brain gathered by placing sensors on the scalp which monitor ‘neuron activity’ - which cops believe can help ‘encourage’ suspects and witnesses to tell the truth.

Apparently, the information gathered by this mean will be used in court of laws. Let see how they do with this.

Your Aura - part 1
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BfaV9ADD6Ns

Your Aura - Part 2
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ErIp2A_-2Ts

The bridges radiant circuits support harmony and the exchange of information between people, particularly intuition about others (EP, page 260). Many men have their bridge circuits running in the wrong direction, it causes them to have difficulty to connect with strangers. The best, I could recommend is to consciously activate your bridge circuits (See the book Energy Psychology by Feinstein)

About the beliefs and attitude , it will be helpful to cultivate beliefs that support your self-esteem and your attempt at building good relationship. Here, I would suggest to study the Dale Carnegie.

Below is a list from Wikipedia of Dale Carnegie key principles if you study his books you will get the details.

Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

1. Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.
2. Give honest and sincere appreciation.
3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.

Six Ways to Make People Like You

1. Become genuinely interested in other people.
2. Smile.
3. Remember that a man’s Name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
5. Talk in the terms of the other man’s interest.
6. Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely.

Twelve Ways to Win People to Your Way of Thinking

1. Avoid arguments.
2. Show respect for the other person’s opinions. Never tell someone they are wrong.
3. If you’re wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
4. Begin in a friendly way.
5. Start with questions the other person will answer yes to.
6. Let the other person do the talking.
7. Let the other person feel the idea is his/hers.
8. Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.
9. Sympathize with the other person.
10. Appeal to noble motives.
11. Dramatize your ideas.
12. Throw down a challenge.

You can also consider the Love Meditation.
My friend Faisal wrote a good piece on explaining how the love meditation can improve your relationship with people:

“There has been a buzz about law of attraction and seduction for a long time on the web. If you have been following Louis’s writing you would already get a very good understanding on how to work on that issue. Louis has written about love meditation a long time back and he has also made his progress public, by writing in this very blog.

I am sure you may dig those articles up by going to the archives. I have been friends with Louis for a while, besides being a great friend Louis has also been my mentor. He has helped me understand these things better, ( mind you these energy methods, law of attraction concepts, meditations are not taught in schools, at least not in North America) Since I have been practicing the love meditation and some of the other methods for a while, I thought I would share with you guys

The very aspect of practicing love meditation would open you up to endless possibilities to attracting a mate. Whether you are a male or a female, it makes no difference, when you start doing love meditation, you open up the energy channels in your heart, which ultimately attracts you to people. First things, you will notice as Louis did already, including myself, you will see that children are very attracted to you. You may also notice this with animals. They are more inclined to love energy.

As you keep your daily practice up for anywhere between 4-6 (depends on person to person, for some it may be way less) weeks should see drastic changes in your interaction with other people. They would be more attracted to you under any situations. Now you may question that I would not want to attract the wrong group of people, but this is where law of attraction kicks in, your vibrational match at that point only brings in like minded people according to your frequency, meaning that they are as much loving as you are, Now every now and then, you might come across someone totally on the other side of the energy grid than you are, it happens, just express love to them and move on.

Now at this point, (meaning you are still practicing love meditation for about 4-6 weeks), if there is an intention in your heart to attract your significant other, things will happen fast. Meaning you will manifest in your reality the girl/guy of your inner mind to your outer reality. How do I know this for a fact? Well Louis has manifested a girl just like he has imagined in his mind into his reality(you can also find that very post on this blog) and so have I! I have done this not only once but several times. For love meditation methods and techniques, you may find lots of articles based on them on this blog, I suggest start with the basicsKlaus talks about, then customize it as Louis and I have done. Once you start practicing it, you may notice some things and tweak it here and there to go along with it. I hope this helps to clarify things a little bit more. Have a great time attracting your ultimate person!”

Let starts with the question of getting an ex back.

Before you met someone you magnetize yourself to certain characteristics that are attractive to you. May be, you are magnetic to kindness, generosity, spirit and honesty. You believe these characteristics are desirable and because your beliefs form your reality , you will tend attract people that reinforce these beliefs this include your mate.

Eventually, you start a relationship with a mate with the characteristics you value so much, you are so focused in the begin on these characteristics that you ignore other characteristics that otherwise would have been unattractive to you. You are also so much flooded by the attention of your mate that you actually have no interest to see anything wrong. You have a nice relationship focused on the positive aspects of each other.

Later on, you might for one reason or another slightly change your focus and notice that you do not like XYZ characteristics in your mate or another possible scenario, you lose your job and find difficulty to find another one, it might as a consequence fill yourself with a belief in your unworthiness, this unworthiness will be picked up by your partner and problem may arise as a result of this new belief. This is one of the possible scenario among many. Any change of beliefs will cause an adjustment of your relationships for the better, status quo or worse.

In the first case, you start to focus on aspects you do not like about your partner you change your attractor field to attract more of that. This is especially true if you keep focusing over and over about these unwanted characteristics. Over time, you find a large chunk of characteristics that you do not like, they might not had been there in the begin as some of them can be the result of new beliefs.

Once you fill yourself with the new attractor field of what you do not want from someone then your relationship will begin to decay. Very simple !
If you want to re-attract someone you will have again to focus and cherish the characteristics that brought that person into your life, but even with that there is no guarantee that this specific person will get back at you but it is certain on the other hand that you will magnetize and attract someone with the characteristics you want, this is the Law Of Attraction !

Now for the folks who want to attract a brand new mate into their life the principle are the same. Often guys make the mistake to believe that women have certain attributes and if they master certain seduction techniques they will be able to secure the love and attention of women. They believe that they need to be an alpha male to attract women, they believe women “flake”, women are this , women are that!
What is not understood is that beliefs aren’t attributes of reality, the guys who adopt these beliefs essentially create a reality where they get these response, they don’t want “Let just be a friend” response, cancel date response, etc…etc…and they think that with certain skills they can avoid these responses.

Again, the Law Of Attraction is always at play, whether you are conscious of it or not. Therefore, If you believe that people are a certain way and that you need certain tactics to get them, this is exactly what you will get.

It will be a lot more easier for these guys to write down a list of characteristics they like and want from women and get the feeling that they are attracting women with these characteristics to them. Now, this is only half of it, there is a part where ALL the repellents must be removed. The most common are “I’m not enough”,”I’m worthless” ,”I’m unworthy”,”women give up on me”.
If you have these beliefs you can be sure that will be picked up by the people you meet.

So the method is simple: Make a list of characteristics of what you want, focus on this list feel the appreciation and reinforce the belief that you are attracting that in your life (Beliefs form reality) , work to remove the resistance and limiting beliefs (EFT and may be the Sedona method are good for that)

We talked about the radiant circuits before, now, imagine if right before your manifesting session , you could turn on your radiant circuits and use that joy to feel good about what you want to create. For example if you want to create a car , a job or anything else but you do not have the feeling of it. Here is how you could proceed. This technique is for the people who use the Ultramind CDs or any other manifesting method based on going to a trance state and using your imagination to conceive what you want.
In order to go in a comfortable alpha trance state you will have to use an induction, in the Ultramind CDs this step is accomplished with the Centering exercise which uses progressive muscles relaxation , hypnotic suggestions and visualization. You can get that script either from the CD or from the book “Ultramind ESP system” by Ed Bernd (page. 41-45)

I found out that mentally tracing somebody else radiant circuits reinforce the experience of my own radiant circuits, this is exactly what you could do right after the end of your relaxation induction. Do a deepening exercises such as counting backward from 25 to 1 and tell yourself that you are connected to your higher-self and that you are receiving your higher-self assistance (NOTE: You can replace higher-self by anything that suit your belief system)
Then mentally ask the question : “Who need this ?” (This being the tracing or the activation of the radiant circuits), wait until someone pop up in your consciousness. When you perceive the person in your imagination, trace that person radiant circuits , I usually do not trace all of them, I trace the bridge circuits, the belt flow and the penetrating flow. When I finish I mentally say to the person “Happiness is a choice” and visualise the other person smiling.

If you feel that some of the radiant circuits inside yourself are turning on you are in the right direction, the feeling may not be strong but as long as it is there, you are in the good direction. You can move to the next step. Which is to imagine a time when you succeed to create or attract something positive in your life, connect yourself with that feeling of success. Now, you have done two operations, you traced the radiant circuits of someone who need it, thus giving yourself some of the “I deserve” feel , and if in the process you turned on your own radiant circuits this is even better, you then connected with the feeling of a past success.

The feeling success serves as emotional content to keep your radiance. In other terms, joy brings more joy, when you have the joy, creating is a lot easier. When you have the joy go through your creating process, see you will have a lot less resistance.