Beyond Goal Setting (The power of following your highest Joy)

Bye, bye,  traditional goal planning

Until very recently, I would go the Brian Tracy way regarding  goal achievement. I would decide what I want and establish a series of steps to get “there”.

Now, I embraced a new paradigm. As long as you want something. You are creating the lack of it.  When you are in the state of w and desiring, it means that you are observing the lack of something. It has been said that by many spiritual teachers that all realities are within. Everything, we perceive is inside our consciousness. Outside of it, there is no-thing. Therefore, our lives are reflections of what we are within. Our beliefs, our thoughts, our emotions are the fabric of our experiences.
If we want a new car. It is best to assume, act and feel as if we already have one.

In fact, if you could connect with the essence of what the car will bring you. It will manifest even faster. If it is a sense of security then brings that into yourself.

When you vibrationally match what you want. It directly appears into your life. In traditionally goals setting, you will go through a series of step but in fact these steps serve only one purpose to give gradually more acceptance of what you want. When you reach the point of full acceptance then the car shows up.

Based on these ideas, you cannot go with traditional goal planning anymore.

Visualize it and let it go

What I do now is that I decide what experience I want. I will say “I have it” then usually this process reveal my resistance.
In some areas of have little or no resistance therefore there is nothing to do. Just raise my vibration to match what I decided to experience. It is pretty simple.

I visualize the desired experience and make it as real as possible with all my senses. I can even play it out alone in my room like it was real. When I’m done with that, I will let it go completely to the point that I can barely remember. Usually. when I do that I have things manifested in hours or a few days.

When there are resistances then I have to go through the process of releasing. An example, maybe, I want to dive deep in the sea but my fear that something bad could happen is so big that I cannot generate a feeling strong enough to be a vibrational match for the reality wanted.

Here, I would use a release method such as EFT , NLP or Sedona to let go of the fear of diving into the deep sea. When the fear is gone there is no longer any barrier for accepting the experience.

Spontaneity

Some desired experience would not show up right away even after a successful visualization and acceptance.In these cases, It is due to their nature. You will have to let your higher-self guide you from one synchronicity to another.

Here is a example: Imagine that you want to create a documentary about the pyramids in Egypt. You don’t have the money, the skill and the equipments. But, you did a successful visualization and acceptance (reality creation). You decide to act on your highest joy. Your highest joy is in line with the vibration of what you want to create. Therefore, it is the fastest way to experiencing your desire. Your highest joy at the time is to go to a meditation retreat. What it has to do with your project?
Your ego will rebel and tell you to invest the little money, you have in a filmmaking course.
You decide to not listen to the chant of your ego and you go to that meditation retreat.
There you make a new friend and it turns out that he run a book printing facility in your area.
He asks if you are looking for a job because he needs more staffs.
You accept as you are short on money and you see at a sign that now you will have some more money to fund your passion. It is true but….
When you start working at the facility, you find out that they mostly print books on filmmaking, cinematography and related topics. Amazed, you see this a sign.
Because, you are working well, you are allowed to take some books for you as a reward.
Your next joy is to go read these books in a particular coffee house. Days pass and nothing special happens. After, a couple of weeks, you are in that coffee house. You are reading “Making Documentary Films and Videos: A Practical Guide”. You are so observed in the book that you almost fell on the ground when you hear a guy saying quite loudly “This book is so awesome !”

You ask the guy “you read it”. He replies “yes,sure”.
Then you have a passionate discussion with this guy who just completed the editing of his first documentary. Because, you have read so much books during all these weeks. You are quite knowledgeable. He appreciates you and invite you to his home-studio. There he shows you how to use some of the equipment. You form a good friendship with him. Eventually, you come to visit him quite often and he lets you use the equipments. One day, he reveals that he is going on holiday in Egypt. His family own a property there. He proposes you to go with him because he doesn’t want to be alone there and his girlfriend can’t make it there at that time. Now, on your turn you reveal to him your project to make a documentary about the pyramids.

It appears that he is totally excited by your project and he accepts to work with you on that.
A couple weeks later, you are both in Egypt enjoying the country and making a new documentary.

This is the way manifestation unfolds when you allow yourself to act on your highest joy. You are presented with opportunities that at first do not seem to be connected to your desire but which later prove to be of great relevance.

Do not let the chant of your ego cloud you.

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