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Connecting with people

Connecting with people and having good rapport and relationship with them is no secret, it is often something to do with beliefs and attitude. But, let keeps the beliefs and attitude aside for a second.
If your energy body and particularly your aura is small (as opposed to expanded several feet away around your body), you will not be able to connect well with people actually you will feel a distrust or shyness as you aren’t receive any information. You can remedy with a simple energy medicine routine:

Your Aura – part 1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BfaV9ADD6Ns

Your Aura – Part 2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ErIp2A_-2Ts

The bridges radiant circuits support harmony and the exchange of information between people, particularly intuition about others (EP, page 260). Many men have their bridge circuits running in the wrong direction, it causes them to have difficulty to connect with strangers. The best, I could recommend is to consciously activate your bridge circuits (See the book Energy Psychology by Feinstein)

About the beliefs and attitude , it will be helpful to cultivate beliefs that support your self-esteem and your attempt at building good relationship. Here, I would suggest to study the Dale Carnegie.

Below is a list from Wikipedia of Dale Carnegie key principles if you study his books you will get the details.

Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

1. Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.
2. Give honest and sincere appreciation.
3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.

Six Ways to Make People Like You

1. Become genuinely interested in other people.
2. Smile.
3. Remember that a man’s Name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
5. Talk in the terms of the other man’s interest.
6. Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely.

Twelve Ways to Win People to Your Way of Thinking

1. Avoid arguments.
2. Show respect for the other person’s opinions. Never tell someone they are wrong.
3. If you’re wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
4. Begin in a friendly way.
5. Start with questions the other person will answer yes to.
6. Let the other person do the talking.
7. Let the other person feel the idea is his/hers.
8. Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.
9. Sympathize with the other person.
10. Appeal to noble motives.
11. Dramatize your ideas.
12. Throw down a challenge.

You can also consider the Love Meditation.
My friend Faisal wrote a good piece on explaining how the love meditation can improve your relationship with people:

“There has been a buzz about law of attraction and seduction for a long time on the web. If you have been following Louis’s writing you would already get a very good understanding on how to work on that issue. Louis has written about love meditation a long time back and he has also made his progress public, by writing in this very blog.

I am sure you may dig those articles up by going to the archives. I have been friends with Louis for a while, besides being a great friend Louis has also been my mentor. He has helped me understand these things better, ( mind you these energy methods, law of attraction concepts, meditations are not taught in schools, at least not in North America) Since I have been practicing the love meditation and some of the other methods for a while, I thought I would share with you guys

The very aspect of practicing love meditation would open you up to endless possibilities to attracting a mate. Whether you are a male or a female, it makes no difference, when you start doing love meditation, you open up the energy channels in your heart, which ultimately attracts you to people. First things, you will notice as Louis did already, including myself, you will see that children are very attracted to you. You may also notice this with animals. They are more inclined to love energy.

As you keep your daily practice up for anywhere between 4-6 (depends on person to person, for some it may be way less) weeks should see drastic changes in your interaction with other people. They would be more attracted to you under any situations. Now you may question that I would not want to attract the wrong group of people, but this is where law of attraction kicks in, your vibrational match at that point only brings in like minded people according to your frequency, meaning that they are as much loving as you are, Now every now and then, you might come across someone totally on the other side of the energy grid than you are, it happens, just express love to them and move on.

Now at this point, (meaning you are still practicing love meditation for about 4-6 weeks), if there is an intention in your heart to attract your significant other, things will happen fast. Meaning you will manifest in your reality the girl/guy of your inner mind to your outer reality. How do I know this for a fact? Well Louis has manifested a girl just like he has imagined in his mind into his reality(you can also find that very post on this blog) and so have I! I have done this not only once but several times. For love meditation methods and techniques, you may find lots of articles based on them on this blog, I suggest start with the basicsKlaus talks about, then customize it as Louis and I have done. Once you start practicing it, you may notice some things and tweak it here and there to go along with it. I hope this helps to clarify things a little bit more. Have a great time attracting your ultimate person!”