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Maturity is when you have come to term with your religion, your ethnicity, your social groups ….

Maturity is when you have come to term with your religion, your ethnicity, your social groups. When you are finished with all these things you can mature. Starting to learn about yourself from that standpoint is very beneficial because you no longer need to pay attention to any of the rules from these groups that you have chosen to imprison yourself.
See , may be you are a so-called African-American or a WASP, if you have to live your life by the rules of these groups, it is really impossible to be your true self on the same vein you do not grow adult by holding the hand of your father.

During this journey of evolution, we have at some point let go of past relationships, this is what I started to do last week, I bought a mp3 called the Freedom exercises from Story Waters and Lee Harris. I did the release drill on my way to Portugal little I knew that this exercise actually does work powerfully. …

I felt nothing special during the exercise itself, however, I understood the teaching for me in it. I had to let go of past relationship and release attachment. There is really no point to stay in spiritual infancy!
I came to a term with many thing already for instance, I don’t understand the nationality concept, it is a rotten thing from my standpoint, I do not want it. I met an African guy in Lisbon, he really wanted to know where I m born , where my parent were born, I do not care about any of these things, it is irrelevant, YOU DO NOT GO THERE BY STAYING HERE.
You do not want to leave your hometown because you are afraid to lose the connection to your parents and friends ? As you evolve you will no longer be compatible with your past relationships , you might attempt to keep them by fearing to be alone or something, but, it will not work.

I made a lot of new friends in Portugal, that was good because when I came back home in Valencia, two of my oldest so-called friends brutally left my life

This is where I understood that the process in the Freedom mp3 works, I knew deep in myself that I had to let go of these two people, they left my life in a rather brutal and violent manner.
Due to the violent manner they left, they understand themselves that they have no chance to ever come back. Which is fine by me!

Ask yourself if they are people you need to let go/release in your life ?

Some people involve themselves in romance then it end but they mentally continue the relationship on a mental level for years, this type of relationship needs to be released.
If you have resentment toward someone , it needs to be released.
If you feel , you could have build something with someone but for some reason it didn’t work out at the time, you really have to let go of that one too.
What hold people back is the past energy they keep recycling and using as base material to create their reality.
If Gary hurt you 15 years ago there is no point to recreate the wound in various forms and various relationships, let go of Gary completely.