Stop complaining about being lonely !

Many people on a personal development journey encounter period of solitude. These periods are often unwelcome however they are very often necessary. Personal evolution demands to be alone at one point or another.
I’m in such period, I have been living in this small town for about 2 years and I do not know anyone, I do not care much this is not important, I like to have weeks completely alone. Now, I do know a large numbers of people in other cities, I see them from time to time but I understand if I was living in these cities, I would have a lot less time for any of the stuffs I’m doing right now. Mastering the Ultramind program of remote viewing and remote influencing demands time, and time alone. If I was living in Barcelona (I might move there in the future) where my best friends live, I would be a lot less focused on training.
A period of solitude is often used to develop skills and grow the personality, the development done during such a period will be critical to the success of later more socially active periods.

I remember, when I was a teenager I had to stay home all the holiday time, I used that lonely time to learn about computer programming, the skill developed was incredibly useful, years later I got hired by a high profile start-up during the dot-com boom (I didn’t study the computer thing at college), they put me in their best programmers team and I had the chance to work on high profile projects, all of this, because, I developed the skills during a long period of solitude.
As I said today I’m learning remote viewing and remote influencing, I’m also preparing a yoga show in French language that I will put online, I could use the skill developed to remote view and influence my reality whereby I find a sponsor that finance my show that will allow me to make some money out of it and increase its quality. As you can see having period of solitude can have an interesting return.
Now, may be, you are crying because you do not have any friends, but, may be, you created that situation to teach yourself that you are your own best friend first.
May be, you are crying because you do not have a boyfriend or a girlfriend in this case very often some important lessons must be taken and understood. As an example, may be, you are learning to conquer your jealousy , you didn’t understand the past lessons and you decided to go radical and created a situation where you are alone. That situation is forcing you to reflect, think and grow. This is an example, they are many thing people want to learn and need to learn in solitude.
People create their own reality for their own personal evolution no one else is ever doing anything to you. If you end up in a situation of solitude it is because you wanted it.

You are alone, you can meditate and when you can meditate you can explore your meditation, this is where you will finally have a chance to learn about yourself. If you do not learn about yourself, how are you going to evolve ?

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