May

May be, you are approaching creating your dreams from the wrong side

In many books about the so-called law of attraction, they will tell you to pick something you want and visualize it and wait until it manifests in your life.

I talk to many believers of the law of attraction only a very small numbers of them get what they want on a consistent basis. I want to share some tips to improve your skills at creating a project with the help of the law of attraction.

1 – You Get What you accept. You get what you can conceive.

Can you conceive owning a private Boeing 747 or can you conceive being as wealthy as Donald Trump. These are examples of things almost impossible to manifest for most people. If you can’t conceive it in your mind , you cannot create it.
Put your energy in what you can feel. Now, sometimes, you can choose to manifest something beyond your reach , something you can not really find the true feeling for.
In this case, it might take months if not years to get the right feelings. Once you have the right feelings eventually you will be able to build the proper attractor field to get what you want.

2 – Negative Attractor Field

If someone has debt or financial trouble , that is basically the attractor field of that person. Such a person is magnetic to the energy of debt and financial trouble in this case manifesting will have little effect. Healing must take place first. The healing is best done by a competent healer but it is possible to do it alone with EFT . Make a list of all the beliefs concerning what you can’t seem to get. These limiting beliefs form the attractor field. If one has 146 beliefs about why not to deserve wealth or a relationship.
Doing 20 minutes of visualisation to focus on wealth and relationship might take more than a year to see any result. Discouragement will probably take place much earlier.
Healing a negative attractor field will speed up any manifesting.

3 – What do you REALLY want

Knowing what you REALLY want is critically important. Too many people pursue the dreams of other people. They are wheels in a large plan. Are you sure that what you want is really something you decided for yourself ?
One of my young reader told me that he is going to pursue a doctorate in law because his father want to. I asked him what he really wanted he said that he had rather be a full time psychic detective or something like this. My best friend used to be a lawyer , she quit her job last year to travel the world. Being a lawyer was something her parent choose for her. She never liked it. Even the people who are using the law of attraction often pursue either someone else dream or a false dream something, they think, they want but in fact it isn’t going to bring them any joy.
Go back to your childhood memories and try to find a pattern of what you really liked.

May be, as a child you liked drawing but as an adult you grew brainwashed with the idea that you need to pursue a degree in business and start your own successful business such as a Dodge cars dealership or something so you could get some wealth and buy a big house. Eventually with a lot of effort you could achieve that goal but do not count much on the help of the law of attraction. If you pursue something you do not really want you will activate massive psychological reversal (MPR), that will get you stuck. This is exactly what is happening to my friend Josh is pursuing false dream, something he doesn’t really want. His MPR causes him to do a lot of self-sabotage and indulge in counterproductive behavior.

May be, you no longer have the courage to pursue what you really want ? ah, big story that will be for another post.

4 – Take action !

Many readers live in countries where they have been taught that success comes only on the form of large monetary gain. It is best to un-learn what they told you.
Focus on what you love to do and money will follow as far as I’m concerned I spend my day doing yoga and training, walking on the beach, blogging, reading , watching movies and meeting new people yet I still earn significantly more than the average salary in this country.
You like painting then tomorrow start painting, may be, with little time you will have a collection of your artwork that you can sell on Ebay or elsewhere. If you value your work, If you value yourself , if you put love on what you do , it will get picked up by the people observing the artwork, the next thing you know, you are selling your artwork at high price and you are freed of financial worries.

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ally

Great topic! Did you get results doing eft? I was reading a lot of materials about it, even talked with an eft practitioner, but i feel like i haven*t made impresssive progress yet. I have been using eft for 3 months now, and got some results, but still at the important issues i feel i have not cleared them yet.I was reding and applying the inner child technique, but i am having problems makeing my inner child understand she has to change and evolve.
http://www.louisyagera.com Louis Yagera

Ally, My two first years of working with EFT weren’t brilliant. It is when I started to read a lot about EFT and ways to make it works for me that I started to see real tangible results.
For instance, you might have psychological reversal toward EFT itself. I had them so I had to start my sessions with several rounds using set-up phrases like
Even though, EFT doenst work for me ….
Even though , EFT is ineffective …..
I had a few more statements like this, only when I was finished with that I could start my EFT session to work on an issue. I also notice that for me I need to do 4 to 10 rounds to notice anything.
If you could have a session with a competent professional just one time that could be good for you.
ally

You were so persistent with EFT and your persistence paid off. I read a lot of materials myself on EFT and saw a lot of materials on youtube. I think Robert Smith does a great job. As I told you, I have discovered EFT a few months ago and had some results. I don*t think I have PR on doing EFT and on it working on me. I am a little skeptic but as I see the results, I am more of a believer. I think the most important thing in EFT is to find the right words and use them in your setup statement. So, you don*t have to be too general. You must dig deeper inside you and find the words that “click”. I met a wonderful EFT parctitioner online, she was so kind to help me and give me very useful tips and guidance. And I feel I am on my way ot healing, though I do have sometimes bad days and want to give up, but then I start again doing eft. I feel it is the real thing.