This is a chat transcript with a friend that I nickname Josh.

**edited to fit blog format**

Josh: I feel so down, life feels useless to me, all this stuffs and my religion, everything is conflicting. I have realized I have become very lazy. So lazy that I barely do any of my meditations any more. I have become lonely. I lost all my friends because they think I m weird. Because I do all sorts of meditation and I believe in the psychic stuff.

Well, you are adjusting to new level of consciousness, it does take time before it is reflected in the people around you, in due time, you will attract new people that are in line with what you are. As I mentioned in my blog in the past , I lost nearly 100 % of my friends in 2007 because I was doing that stuffs, now, you can see on my Facebook on my pictures….I have too much friends. Many of them are involved in that “stuff”.(EFT , meditation, personal development)

Josh: But why do things seem so confusing ?

As I said it is because you are adjusting to new level of consciousness thus you have that confusion. Confusion is a great state of consciousness to be in, it imeans change.

Josh: What should I do ?

Focus on what is working in your life and find a goal to pursue. Go to your childhood memories. what was the thing that you desired to do as a child? Many kids are asked, ‘what do you want to be when you grow up?’. Then they come up with many different things that they want to be. This is what you have to do.

Perhaps, in searching memories you will come across something that you ‘desired’ to do, all your life you wanted to do this something.

Josh: I tried, I do not remember anything.

Well, to age regress you have to go gradually, just go 4 years ago and remember what it was like with as much details , then from that standpoint, age regress for another couple of years, done like this, age regression is a lot easier.

Josh: well see as a child I wanted to study computer science because it was the booming dotcoms.

Success does not always come in the form of money. Success comes in satisfaction in many ways. Then because you are going in only ‘one’ direction you perhaps have forgotten to turn around when you find the ‘door’ in front of you closed. Then see what would happen if you opened the door behind you.
People are well meaning and will try and help you in many ways. But, when you focus on lack , you do not get anything done, you actually send the signal to your brain that it cannot be done.

Josh: True, all I wanted is money. In my teen years, I did smoke marijuana and hung out with the wrong crowd. There was not much focusing on good things.

The thing that is needed, is NOT to continually look at what you DON’T have, but look at what you DESIRE to have. The biggest thing to remember is the two very most powerful words that you can use – I AM. Now, say, I AM and pursue. It does not matter ‘what’ you pursue. But, go after ‘something’ regardless of what it is. You’ll say, ‘well I would like to work in wood, but it does not afford me a living’. Already you have set a ‘road block’. The words ‘does not’ tells the brain that this is what you desire.

Josh: Yes, I get it, I have been conflicting myself with negative beliefs.

Now, if you whittle away, with some resources, a little at a time, it does not have to be a tremendous amount right at the beginning. Do not focus on what you DON’T have; focus on what you DO HAVE and what you WANT to do.

Josh: I understand what your saying. Any advice on how to get rid of laziness?

I think, I already answered it , you have to re-read the discussion and apply

Josh: Thanks.

You are welcome !

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