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Core issues and the ability to create abundance

Core issues or life challenges often greatly affect your abilities to create abundance. I call core issues or life challenges something that people struggle to “conquer” usually it takes years to resolves core issues in many cases people don’t “conquer” their core issues at all. I read about a doctor who practices past life regression therapy, he had a patient who took hundreds of lifetime to “conquer” jealousy.

Being a child abuse survivor is particularly difficult to deal with, I know two of them. One managed to get out of the trauma after 15 years and became a successful therapist.
The second one is still young and live in a near by town. She reads about creating, manifesting and related topic but she constantly failed to build an abundant life. Her negative image of herself, the trauma holds her back. I gave her meditations to do, it showed some result but then when she started to change , she came back to the old patterns. She is too attached to her identity of a person being valueless.

She is afraid to change to something she doesn’t know. I know a third person; that one is terrorized by the idea of being alone, she can’t pass that, during the four past years. She kept returning with her same boyfriend to break up and then come back again. Now, she had break up again but this time, she went to move back to live with her parents. Parallel to that, she is also a small business owner, but she constantly fails to build a successful business. She has little respect for herself, she thinks that she needs to be with someone else to have respect for herself.

She is also circling around with her core issues, she doesn’t want to do anything about it and she keeps repeating the problems month after month. She requested help but it is difficult to help someone like this.
Now, you have to see with yourself if you have core issues or a life challenge that it is difficult for you to conquer, observe it and ask yourself how it is affecting your ability to build abundance.
A couple of question to find your core issues from EFT-Talk :

- How long have you suffered with this, and what was going on in your life around the time it started?
- Who else in your family suffered with this?
- What would you be focusing on if you were not worrying about the condition?
- What’s the “downside” of getting over this problem?
- What would you have to DO that you don’t want to do if you were better?
- What happened the last time you were (happy, sober, at your ideal weight, etc.)?
- What does this feeling remind you of?

If you conclude that a core issue is impeding your ability to have an abundant life then you will have to work on it right away, they are so many ways core issues can be approached, the question is how bad do you want to live an abundant life ?
You have to also understand that you can DECIDE to NOT let your core issues dictate, what you can be.
Say to yourself today, I stop recycling yesterday. Take a small card, write on top of it.
“I can be everything I want”, I write in the bottom “I’m, I pursue” in middle put an image that represent what you want, you can put protective plastic on that card, keep it on your pocket. Each time, you need to remember what you want take your card read it and visualise your ideal scene or day. Change begins when you take action toward change.

Life is a journey enjoy the ride.

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