Nov

How to change your life with Love – part 1

Question: My life is mess, my wife left me, she took our two children with her. Even the children don’t want talk to me any more. I don’t have a roof anymore to sleep, I don’t have a job, I have been sleeping in the street I do not have any savings. I’m a disaster . Can I use this Love energy to get out of this hell ?

Answer:

First, let me tell you where I’m coming from so you understand my vantage point to explain you, how to work with the Love energy.
One year ago, I wanted to create a new lifestyle, I wanted to live in a sunny place and at the seaside and with some mountains, I also wanted the possibility to travel several times per year in various countries. I had no idea how to create such a massive change in lifestyle. It implied moving into another country , Spain in my case, doubling my revenue to afford a seafront apartment and the money to travel. It took only seven short months to create this, partly because of the Love energy.
You mentioned your wife and your children, I had situation where I had to use the knowledge I’m going to share in the context of family and relationship, as you can see I talk from an experience standpoint.

Forgiveness

Your first step will be to stop the grief, the anger and the resentment. You can’t accomplish anything in these emotional states. If you have to be angry be it for a full day and decide to start to change the next. When you are ready to change, you will have to forgive yourself for what you created. When you focus on forgiveness that will be mostly on yourself.

Tell yourself that you are ready to let go of these behaviors and beliefs that caused you to create your current situation. Ask yourself why you created these situations. You might get an answer during meditation, during a dream or even it might be revealed while you are reading a book or watching a movie, your understanding of why you created such things will help you to move forward.
Forgive your wife when you meditate use the affirmation:

You are free (your wife) and I’m free. I accept myself as I’m, I accept you as you are.

You may visualize the Love energy flowing from your heart chakra to the heart chakra of your wife. You can also ask to let go of the root of your problem with her. Do the same with your children additionally send Love energy to your family, visualise or feel your energy coming out from you to them, tell yourself that you love them and that they will do fine and that they will attract the best for them. Take your time with this, I suggest you to do one hour in the morning on working on forgiving and sending Love to your family, this process may take several weeks before you are free of any resentment and anger toward your wife. Only then a change in attitude from them toward you will be possible.

Now, of course, it is important to do these things with commitment, if you start do not stop halfway through. The number one factor of success is persistence.

Creating Reality

Choose an activity you really love to do and imagine what will be your lifestyle if you could do that thing you love. Do not pick something because it is income producing and do not disregard something you love to do because you think you cant make an income out of it. If you do not know what to do , go back to your childhood memory, if you lost it, it is probably there that you will find the dream.
Often in life when we are not on our truth path, we create severe personal crisis to focus us again on what we are really here for. You can do this exercise from the book Creating Money
to help you with this.
“Imagine that it is ten years from today. You have given yourself the permission to be all you can be; you have believed in yourself; you have taken the appropriate steps to follow your higher path. How do you feel about yourself and your life ? Make up a fantasy about the success of your last ten years.”

If you want to do something and you fear it, it is probably what you dream to do. Go for that. Once you have decided on something I suggest that each night before you go to sleep, you visualize for one hour your ideal life, this simple exercise will provide the energy, the motivation to propel you toward your dream. A study showed that the best salesmen are not the best because they have great tactics and strategies but because they visualize themselves that way.

Again, do not start this program if you plan to quit after a few weeks, once, you start stay with it, persistence is the secret to success. Prior to your night visualization, you can do half hour of sending Love to yourself, your loved ones and the people that will take a part in the life that you are creating. It will help to “supercharge” your visualization.

Now, do not tell me “I do not know how to visualize”, if you don’t know how to visualise, go to your nearest park, look at a flower for one minute then close your eyes and try to recreate the flower in your mind (smell included), stay in the park until you can visualise one way or another the flower.
The stronger your visualization the faster it will be birthed into reality. In your waking hours do things in direction of your dream, if you want to be a singer go at a singing class, if you want to write, sit down and write. If you want to be an investor then go at the library read books about the topic, create investment simulation, join discussion boards of like minded. You want to heal people then learn a healing art like reiki, EFT etc ….
Do something this is the most important ! One more advise in some people restructuring beliefs cause them heavy stress, if you have stress because of the change, you can evacuate the stress by doing an “aerobic” activity jogging, swimming, yoga and aerobic. Body building is nice but it isn’t that good for that purpose because you do not get ride of the stress with it, body building is anaerobic activity.