Imbalance Male - Female energy
This is not a friendly or even an entertaining post. I discuss the imbalance in the way people express their female and male energy in this present time. What we often say or hear is that we are the best or we are worthless however these are labels, If a guy say I’m worthless he is really referring to a story or vibration stored in the body as electrical signal that he has associated himself with.
We are not a story, an emotion we are simply observing these things.
People usually imprison themselves in loop such as:
Observer->Thought: Men (or women) don’t like me–>Reality: Inability to form a relationship
Therefore
Observer-> Inability to form a relationship-> Men (or women) don’t like me
In another words observing something you don’t want will only reinforce it in your life as you will also use the result (your reality) to reinforce your thoughts or beliefs.
Now, this put the “Male and Female energy ” debate into appropriate perspective because in the absolute they are the result of observation in the three dimensional world.
Now, I have to say if you haven’t done Kundalini 
meditation or Taoist Yoga you don’t know what feel like these energies, I have done it and one the energy feel cold and the other feel warm. Men and women both use their energies in a unbalanced way. At some point the student on the self-realization journey has to start the difficult task to balance these energies in herself/himself.
Western women have their Estrogen (the stuff used for maintaining bone mineral) drop considerably after their menopause this make the body weaker and vulnerable to osteoporosis. This is not due because a woman body is just like this, it is due to an imbalance in the use of female energy. Otherwise, if a woman was just like that, the problem will be global on the planet which is not.
The people living the so-called modern western lifestyle have more imbalance than the ones living in tribes in the forest.
However, we live the city right ? so we have to do something. Men imbalance are expressed through the abuse of strength and authority and also lack of kindness.
Balancing these energies don’t make one bisexual or androgen this is a misunderstanding. There is a fear to balance these energies, the fear of being a sissy wimp for a man and the fear of becoming to o manly for a woman, there is also the fear of becoming bisexual or androgen
These fears fade away as the student get familiar with knowledge relating to these energies to understand it will be good to study the human psyche, human psyche isn’t attached to a sexual orientation , psyche isn’t male or female. Therefore, men can understand that they aren’t their penises and it is ok to have kindness for a guy.
The desire to be an “alpha male” (A guy who has control and fascination over weak and needy women ) is also problematic, it is an unbalance, being the barbie woman who cannot defend herself and need a strong man is also problematic.
I will visit again the topic in future posts.
