Comments on: Some doors are best left closed ..not really

By: Frank

Frank — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 02:34:37 +0000

I’m still cultivating “surrender” myself but I took some big leaps in my ability to “let go” when I started to really practice the objective observation of the physical sensation in the body. I found I could just let pain of all sorts, physical and emotional to just “be.” I was right there with the pain - but there was no suffering. I got a lot of help from support at life mastery guilds in tweaking this, but it has helped me so much in the long run. It’s funny because it feels like I’m “pushing” but I’m actually “allowing” and then something interesting happens inside me…I just let go and surrender. I think a big part of it working for me now is that I don’t have a belief that surrender is difficult. I now believe it is easy and natural.

By: Arne

Arne — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 11:39:51 +0000

What we resist persists.

Accept and let go.

Namaste,
Arne

By: Louis Yagera

Louis Yagera — Sun, 04 Nov 2007 17:06:43 +0000

IMHO, genuine surrender can be very difficult especially for those of us having grieving or abuse issues. I’m happy I’m a soft case I could have been worse, some people may need days and weeks or even months before they can surrender.

To surrender demands to have certain beliefs, it may take time to build these beliefs.but, I agree that this is something valuable.

If we could surrender to life, we shall experience a stream of abundance how do we go about that.

By: Jasper

Jasper — Sun, 04 Nov 2007 16:09:21 +0000

“really surrender”…
That reminds me of the story of a sad monk, who lock himself into his chamber (or is locked into it by his fellow monks?) Then he lies in there and surrenders to his fear and pain till it is gone.
->We need to go through it(embrace it) to release it.
Maybe the going through can be made smoother by such means as EFT, but I think its not necessary.

Well, not a very profound example, but I think it hits the point.

Really surrendering: a thing worthy to be learned.

By: Louis Yagera

Louis Yagera — Sun, 04 Nov 2007 12:59:07 +0000

The keywords are ‘really surrender’, I found this to be very difficult, especially the first few hours after the shit hit the fan.

I have such resistance to surrendering I m much more someone whou would battle. But I recognize that ‘really surrendering’ is very noble and work beautifully.

By: Frank

Frank — Sun, 04 Nov 2007 10:33:19 +0000

I think that many people if they dig deeply enough will meet this fear and vulnerability that can seem almost debilitating. My own way of dealing with it was to surrender completely for a whole day. I lay in complete surrender, despair and fear like a corpse but completely conscious. Eventually I found this peace grow out from inside, even deeper than the fear. The thing with this though is that one needs to be willing to “give it all up” and really surrender.

By: Louis Yagera

Louis Yagera — Fri, 02 Nov 2007 18:39:28 +0000

Yes, you might ask Florian his EFT DVDs I think he doesnt use them at all.

By: Jasper

Jasper — Fri, 02 Nov 2007 01:19:34 +0000

Felt my heart chakra aching a little, while I read that.
All the best wishes to you for releasing!

Maybe I´ll have to go through that too…

cya